Working as gay male escort

I was on edge for three days leading up to it. When the evening came around, the agency phoned with details of where to go.

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I had hoped to meet in a restaurant or bar - a public place, offering opportunities to chicken out - but I was sent to the client's house. I arrived early and walked up and down the street outside for 20 minutes, talking myself out of it and then, just as fast, persuading myself to go ahead. In the end, curiosity won out. Life soon became a series of absurd non sequiturs. When I excused myself from after-work drinks, it's safe to assume none of my colleagues suspected that, while they enjoyed a chat in the pub, I was being asked to parade around a warehouse apartment wearing nothing but a pair of Speedos and a smile.

At first, such secret rendezvous were thrilling, but the excitement soon faded. Escorting is not so much a job as a lifestyle, and your boundaries get tested and reassessed very quickly. I'd always thought a threesome must be a liberating experience, and soon I didn't flinch if I counted four other escorts in the room. It's when you see an orgy as part of a normal day that life slips into a slightly surreal and complicated mire. The sex was always empty. Being an escort is not about intimacy and certainly not about love. It is simply a transaction. There is no flow, no shared experience, just buyer and seller.

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Money was never discussed because the agency settled the rates beforehand, but while on the surface we were there to enjoy each other's company, the unspoken assumption was that I had been paid for and so would do as I was told. Ugh, this one really sucks. Nothing ruins a perfectly decent fake-date like the cops or, worse still, your dad finding out about it.

Then you have to listen to the weird piano recordings he sends you.

I was a male escort

When searching for your client at the designated meet-up spot, the safest bet is to mosey on over to the guy in the ill-fitted button-down with the greasy grey comb-over, mustache, and the anxious expression any sexually frustrated year-old wears when he has a vicious half-chub. Wait until you make eye contact before you pull out your dainty wave and walk over.

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Listen to them explain their entire year career while they simultaneously redact anything of substance because they want to keep their identity a secret. Oh, totally interesting! Madrid is really beautiful?? I HAVE to go??? They are usually larger women and some of them have definitely been a bit slow.

Not retarded or anything but just a little dimmer then the average person. Nearly all are inexperienced. There have been a few that fall outside all those traits but it really is a rare occurrence. But in the moment I find it pretty easy to fantasize about other women or experiences. Either by closing my eyes or just letting my eyes slide out of focus and start picturing a more attractive woman.

What works really well for me is thinking really hard about some of my favorite sexual encounters and my best orgasms. Any condom should keep you in the game long enough. There are quite a lot of couples out there who are looking for something new to spice up their bedroom life. I honestly love when couples contact me. A lot of my clients are in totally sexless relationships and I always wonder if the fire could get hot again if only they talked about some new sexual experiences and acted on them.

I work on my own. I just feel like there are more important things to do in the city then tracking down one male pro. As far as sketchy clients go I always read the messages beforehand carefully to weed out the weird sounding people. If the words someone is using give you a bad feeling then skip it.

Again bad feeling in your gut then bail. I am a pretty big, strong guy as well and I always feel like I am capable of defending myself. I do consider myself straight and yes I do oral on men. That always makes me feel super uncomfortable. I do not.

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I get asked nearly every time though. Fun fact from my experience most gay men are catchers. I would say only 15 or 20 percent of the men ask me to be the bottom. The rest ask me to top them. I decline all of them of course. Good thing there are other ways to please the fellas.

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Yup I do oral and the women that want it as well. Not many but every now and then certainly. Something I did I think was cringeworthy. This woman was performing oral on me and her teeth kept scraping me. At the time for some reason flexing my Johnson made the pain less intense so I kept doing it. Well a few minutes into it the motion of flexing my Johnson so much made me squeeze out a very audible fart.


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I was so embarrassed.